Private sanctuary for Fixers

Sanctuary for the ones who hold everyone together.

A quiet, high-trust space for Fixers, front-line leaders, innovators and MVPs – the humans everyone leans on, who rarely have anywhere to lean themselves.

Not therapy. Not another loud social network. A discreet ecosystem for restoration, clarity and connection for society’s invisible backbone.

Priority access for founders, executives, high-value professionals, and parents of emerging Fixers.

Archetype

Who this is for

“Fixer” is not a job title. It’s an operating mode. If these sound like you or someone you love, you’re in the right place.

For individuals

Fixers, super-carriers & quiet superheroes

  • You are the person everyone calls when things go wrong.
  • You feel responsible for outcomes you didn’t create.
  • You perform under pressure, even when you’re not okay.
  • People assume you’re fine because you keep them fine.
  • Rest feels dangerous, but exhaustion is becoming normal.
For organisations & parents

Those who rely on Fixers

  • You know exactly who your MVPs are – and how fragile losing them would be.
  • You see a child, partner, or leader carrying more than their share.
  • Your institution depends on a handful of people to hold everything together.
  • You want to protect their capacity, not just reward their performance.
Post-lockdown reality

Why this sanctuary exists

During the global lockdowns, Fixers quietly held families, teams, and systems together. Many never recovered. Burnout, fatigue and quiet collapse became normal. The world moved on. They didn’t.

The invisible cost of being “the strong one”

  • Fixers absorb chaos so others don’t have to.
  • Their breakdown is treated as a personal failure, not a systemic risk.
  • They are over-relied on, under-supported, and rarely given safe space.
  • Most self-help treats them as consumers – not as critical infrastructure.

What we’re building instead

  • A private community designed for discretion, not performance.
  • Tools, language and rituals for sustainable Fixerhood.
  • Pathways for individuals, organisations and parents to protect their Fixers.
  • A movement that makes it normal to carry the carriers.
Signals

Words you may have needed to see

These are some of the phrases that started the movement. Use them as mirrors, as warnings, or as reminders that you’re not the only one.

Who fixes the Fixer?
You insure your assets – who insures the one who built them?
Heroes collapse too.
You are the backup plan. What’s yours?
The world leans on you – where do you lean?
Being needed is not the same as being supported.
Strong doesn’t mean okay.
Natural leaders burn brightest – and burn out first.
Your exhaustion is invisible because you perform through it.
Fixers are not fuel.
If losing you is a strategic risk, protecting you is a strategic investment.
Your child’s strength needs sanctuary, not just praise.
Access

Join the early access list

We’re rolling this out in stages: first to individual Fixers, then to organisations and parents of emerging Fixers. Share a few details and we’ll invite you when your cohort opens up.

No spam. No public member list. We will only contact you with relevant updates or an invitation.

What’s coming

A glimpse of the ecosystem

  • Private circles for Fixers, execs, and parents – each with their own language and tools.
  • The Fixer OS – mental models and rituals for sustainable high-responsibility living.
  • Guided resets – digital and physical formats for deep rest without disappearing.
  • Org programs – for boards and leaders who want to protect their MVPs.
  • Invitation-only retreats – for when “online” isn’t enough.
Origin

Created by a career Fixer

The Fixer Sanctuary is being developed by [Your Name – e.g. Chancemore Matonhodze], a lifelong fixer, technologist and systems architect who has carried healthcare platforms, companies and teams across volatile environments.

After watching too many Fixers burn out, break down quietly, or walk away entirely, this project was born: a dedicated space where the ones who hold everything together can be seen, supported, and sustained.

This is not a replacement for professional care. It is an intelligence layer and sanctuary for those whose collapse would cost more than anyone realises.

Connect

Want to partner on this, support the build, or explore institutional pilots?

Email: you@example.com
LinkedIn: [Your LinkedIn]
Author: [Your Book / Author Page]

We are especially interested in collaborations with healthcare systems, financial institutions, leadership programs, and parents’ communities.

Clarity

Questions you might have

Is this therapy?
No. The Fixer Sanctuary is not a clinical service and does not replace professional mental health care. It is a private community, toolkit and ecosystem for high-responsibility humans who need better language, structure and support around the way they operate.
Is this just another social network?
No. Traditional social platforms reward performance, noise and addictive engagement. This space is being designed for low-pressure, low-noise, high-trust connection and restoration, with clear boundaries and no algorithmic circus.
Who is this not for?
This is not for trolls, saboteurs, spectators, or people looking to harvest Fixers for more free labour. It is also not for those seeking to diagnose or treat others – it is for those who carry heavy loads and those who genuinely want to protect them.
Will this be paid?
Yes. Some layers will be free, but core offerings for individuals, organisations and parents will be paid. The goal is to build a sustainable infrastructure that can actually protect Fixers, not another free platform that quietly exploits them.